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A Little Bracelet Symbolizes a Mother’s Vibrant Life

Tuesday, February 2nd, 2010

Everyone has a story about their mother. Mothers are as different as their unique personalities. Some are patient and kind. Some are loud and obnoxious. Others are very opinionated. In spite of these characteristic differences in a mother’s personality, they do the best that they can, as there is no wrong way to love their child.

Let me first point out that being a mother is the most challenging, yet rewarding, experience in a woman’s life. Women have the ability to love their child unconditionally, in spite of the circumstances. It is said that a Mother’s Love begins at the very thought of conception and never ends; not even after death.

This year I wanted to mark my mother’s 80th birthday with something special. It didn’t need to be expensive; I simply wanted somethat that would reflect upon her life and our relationship. I eventually chose to put together an Italian charm bracelet that would reflect each of the stages of her life, especially her role of a mother.

For the mother who just gave birth to a red-faced, wrinkly skinned, squalling infant with no hair, no teeth, and no idea of who this woman is, her first comment is “Isn’t my baby the most beautiful thing you’ve ever seen in your life?!” A new mother’s love is blind.

The mother of an obstinate two-year-old, whose boundaries are constantly being tested, patiently teaches the right way to behave. She allows her child to experience anger and frustration, but ignores tantrums, choosing instead to reward good behavior. This mother’s love is patient, for she understands this stage in her child’s life is short-lived.

The mother of the kindergartener learns to “let go” and allows her child to explore new experiences, meet new challenges, and discover ways to socialize with their peers. As the youngster grows into adolescence, the mother’s role changes with each stage; supporting, encouraging, and challenging the child to become independent. This mother’s love is constant.

In a mother’s eyes, her child can usually do no wrong, regardless of the circumstances. Not so true in the tumultuous adolescent years. Because the mother did such a good job of raising her child to be an independent, self-reliant individual, teen-agers often push themselves into adulthood before they are actually ready. Mistakes are made. Often, all a mother can do is guide the child to learn from their mistakes; to make better decisions; to accept that her child is not perfect. In this stage of motherhood, her love needs to be very forgiving and understanding.

The love a mother has for her adult child is full of pride, for she has the satisfaction of a job well done in raising her child. Her efforts have been successful. Her love has overcome all of the obstacles and stages in life. This love is reciprocated because the adult child realizes and appreciates the love their mother has shown them throughout their life.

There is a special bond formed by mother and child once the child becomes a parent. The mother’s ever-changing role is now defined as “Grandmother”. This woman’s love has come full circle now because she understands the challenges her child will face in raising a child. She knows the rewards her child will receive. She appreciates the lessons in love that her grandchild will learn. For, there is no stronger love than that of a mother; and no love more rewarding than becoming a grandmother!

Let’s all celebrate mothers and all the things they are!


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Look to the Internet for Great Gift Ideas

Wednesday, January 13th, 2010

I’m a little embarassed to admit this, but I am a gift giving catastrophe waiting to happen.  No, I don’t stumble and break the gifts before giving.  My problem is that I have an impossible time deciding.  I’m just plain awful at coming up with original gift ideas.  I’m sure you’ve already guessed the solution to my despair: the Web.

The Internet is full of the usual and the unusual when it comes to gift suggestions.  Now I realize that everyone is out to make a buck, but that doesn’t bother me in the least.  I’d actually be willing to pay someone just to make the decision for me, so why not buy their products if they can come up with good ideas.  In my country, that’s the patriotic way to look at it!

Is there anyplace other than the online world where I might be inspired to send my mom a New York style cheesecake instead of the same boring chocolate cake I usually sent her?  Fortunately, I can stretch this one idea out for many years simply by changing the flavor of cheesecake from one birthday to the next.

My daughter, who apparently gets her creative gift giving skills from me, found a bracelet idea for her grandmother.  It worked out beautifully for her but it raised the bar to a higher standard for me.

You can find gift ideas by searching for age groups, say teenagers (with whom I most the most trouble) and children.  You can also use a search engine to find articles recommending gifts of all the gift giving occasions from Bat Mitzvahs or Easter, from anniversaries to house warmings, or even what I lovingly refer to as the “Hallmark holidays,” such as Valentine’s Day or Sweetest Day or take your terrier to work day.  You can even search by the category of the item that you want to give.  For example, you might know that you want to give a video game for a Playstation, a piece of jewelry that includes diamonds (you’ve just moved out of my price range) or even a gift for a dog.

Indeed, there are entire website pages and sites dedicated to people who give gift ideas for gift klutzes like me to steal and claim them as our own.  If you have any great gift ideas, please put them online so that I can find them or you could just send the item directly to me and I’ll forward it to my favorite recipient.  You can count on my everlasting appreciation.


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Make a Special Memory With a Gift Of Initial Jewelry

Friday, October 2nd, 2009

Oftentimes, it is difficult to find the right gift when it’s time to show how much you care. It’s hard to go wrong with the gift of jewelry, especially when you’re giving to that “someone special.” Jewelry gifts have universal appeal, and when you choose wisely, never evoke that feeling of having chosen something at the last minute. Initial jewelry, for example initial pendants, allow the gift giver to individualize the piece.

This extra level of personalization really can make the recipient feel special, and make an ordinary piece of jewelry extraordinary.You can find initial pendants and jewelry that flatter every personality type. For men, large and bold block letters on a chunky gold chain are stylish, especially if he favors an urban personal style. For those who want something truly bold and cutting edge, gemstone encrusted initials are an option.

Professional men often opt for a gold ring with block initials to wear, which is a classic style. Women, of course, are also fans of the gritty urban style; so don’t assume that bold block styles are only for men! However, if she is fonder of understated looks, delicate scripts make for a lovely choice.

Though initial pendants are particularly popular, you can find initial jewelry in every corner of the jewelry universe. Rings, bracelets, and earrings are among the options available to those seeking initial jewelry.

Promise rings are an option for those who want to express strong commitment without taking the leap into engagement. Promise rings are typically scaled-down versions of engagement rings, but there is no reason to restrict yourself to the norm. By using your first initial with the first initial of your partner, you create a lovely commemoration of your relationship. Every time your partner looks at the ring, she will be reminded of your commitment and devotion.

Gemstones are a possibility to consider that give the piece a splash of color and sparkle. A smartly situated gemstone draws the eye of the observer, and elevates the “wow” factor of the piece. Of course, a diamond or cubic zirconium are classic and will match practically every outfit. Consider, too, a garnet or an emerald for your piece of initial jewelry. A bold splash of color can really set a piece off in a stunning way. Birthstones, too, are an option to consider, especially if the wearer has other birthstone jewelry.

Regardless of which type of initial jewelry you settle upon, it’s the kind of gift that has universal appeal. Choosing a gift is sometimes a challenge, but it’s hard to go wrong with the gift of jewelry.


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Different Stages of a Mom’s Life Reflected in Jewelry

Monday, August 17th, 2009

Everyone has a story about their mother. Mothers are as different as their unique personalities. Some are patient and kind. Some are loud and obnoxious. Others are very opinionated. In spite of these characteristic differences in a mother’s personality, they do the best that they can, as there is no wrong way to love their child.

Let me first point out that being a mother is the most challenging, yet rewarding, experience in a woman’s life. Women have the ability to love their child unconditionally, in spite of the circumstances. It is said that a Mother’s Love begins at the very thought of conception and never ends; not even after death.

My mother is celebrating her eightieth birthday in a couple months. She is one of those women who needs nothing, and who finds happiness in the simplest things. I decided to pay tribute to her life, and especially her motherhood, buy selecting an assortment of Italian charms that would each have special meaning to her. Each charm reflects a certain period of her life as a wife, a mother and a grandmother. I’m sure it will bring tears for her, but I’m sure it will also remind her of many happy times with more to anticipate.

A new mother’s love is blind as she gazes at her red-faced, wrinkly, toothless newborn. She honestly believes her baby is the most beautiful in the world. Her love for this infant has grown as her womb has expanded. She has lovingly and unselfishly prepared for this moment, for her life as she has known it is changed forever with the birth of her child.

The mother of an obstinate two-year-old, whose boundaries are constantly being tested, patiently teaches the right way to behave. She allows her child to experience anger and frustration, but ignores tantrums, choosing instead to reward good behavior. This mother’s love is patient, for she understands this stage in her child’s life is short-lived.

The mother of the kindergartener learns to “let go” and allows her child to explore new experiences, meet new challenges, and discover ways to socialize with their peers. As the youngster grows into adolescence, the mother’s role changes with each stage; supporting, encouraging, and challenging the child to become independent. This mother’s love is constant.

In a mother’s eyes, her child can usually do no wrong, regardless of the circumstances. Not so true in the tumultuous adolescent years. Because the mother did such a good job of raising her child to be an independent, self-reliant individual, teen-agers often push themselves into adulthood before they are actually ready. Mistakes are made. Often, all a mother can do is guide the child to learn from their mistakes; to make better decisions; to accept that her child is not perfect. In this stage of motherhood, her love needs to be very forgiving and understanding.

The love a mother has for her adult child is full of pride, for she has the satisfaction of a job well done in raising her child. Her efforts have been successful. Her love has overcome all of the obstacles and stages in life. This love is reciprocated because the adult child realizes and appreciates the love their mother has shown them throughout their life.

There is a special bond formed by mother and child once the child becomes a parent. The mother’s ever-changing role is now defined as “Grandmother”. This woman’s love has come full circle now because she understands the challenges her child will face in raising a child. She knows the rewards her child will receive. She appreciates the lessons in love that her grandchild will learn. For, there is no stronger love than that of a mother; and no love more rewarding than becoming a grandmother!


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Charms for Charm Bracelets Are Still Very popular!

Tuesday, June 9th, 2009

Charms for charm bracelets are those charming accessories that many girls enjoy wearing around their wrists. Charm bracelets have been popular for decades. They come in variations of colors and materials such as beads, silver, gold, glass or porcelain. Every charm on a charm bracelet holds a particular meaning that the wearer associates with while wearing it.

Charm bracelets signify different meanings through history. Many believed that these charms or amulets protected them from evil spirits or that they brought them luck and faith. Some were worn as protection from battles. From that time, until today, the meanings of charms have evolved. Today, depending on the person wearing them, they symbolize different meanings. Today, some girls wear them because they are pretty or they simply want to accent their attire.

They are not just lucky charms. they have increased in popularity and they are very fashionable to wear. Girls do not wear them as some simple form of jewelry only. These pieces bring about an idea of showing someone’s personality or what she wants or is interested in. There are charms that help express something the wearer is interested in, something she may want or even as an expression of her personality. Charms are indeed something pretty to gaze upon, especially when you know they have a special meaning. For most, there is always a story behind.

There are the traditional charm bracelets that are made of gold or silver with various charms dangling around. There are so many themes for these bracelets. There are representations of hearts, flowers, animals, special occasions and various others. Selecting a charm is always a personal choice. Depending on the materials they are made of their pricing will vary. Many individuals enjoy wearing charm bracelets as a stunning piece of fashionable jewelry.

The chains come in various styles and designs and the charms attach to their links. Jewelry designers create various fashionable styles of charms and charm bracelets. Their sizes to vary depending on the size you can wear. Good for little girls to big girls.

There are various charms and charm designs from which you can choose for your charm bracelet. The average bracelet has as many as five to seven charms attached to it. Depending on your personal preference and sense of style, you can mix and match them to suit yourself. You may even want to modify your bracelet and charms from time to time.

Some individuals enjoy collecting charms to add to their bracelets. Commonly, charm bracelets are heirlooms that can be passed down in the family. since they are of priceless value to that family.

They are adorable and attractive as well as precious jewelry pieces. You can wear them anytime you wish no matter the occasion. Most often, they symbolize the inner nature of the person wearing them. They make as lovely presents too on very special occasions since they are very personalized and meaningful. Charms and charm bracelets are and will always be timelessly fashionable.


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